Be kind, always


Hey Reader.

I've been drafting and redrafting this week's email for days; with lots to tell you, but none of it landed quite right.

There is lots going on at Dr Gina HQ: a big house move (we're currently 'camping' in various parts of the new house as we renovate!), decisions about the direction of the business and how I spend my time (ideally not plastering walls: that is fun but not my forte), and some angst over internal politics and colleagues' attitudes recently.

And, whilst I'm great with multiple priorities, sometimes it gets a bit much.

My guess is you have the same feeling at times. Doctorates tend to do that to you. They 'scrape your soul', as I found myself warning a potential student earlier in the week.

So the message that came to me this morning - that a colleague has unexpectedly suffered a close personal loss - took me back to some of my own 'having a tough time' moments.

And it reminded me that - far from taking people's intransigence, or lack of interest, personally - we need to be kind, because we can never know what a person is going through.

Maybe that applies for you, too?

New blog post alert: What's happening in the world of doctoral study this month, and what it means for you. The new blog tells you about three things worth knowing. Let me know if you like it!

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I support researchers and doctoral students who are exhausted, overwhelmed, and done with pretending.I don’t offer magic bullets or mindset platitudes. I offer clear-sighted structure - sanity-saving tools - honest encouragement - fierce clarity - and, always, kindness - Because in the world of academia, those things are radical. Get regular updates, offers and help from my DocDates emails.

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